First of all Hi, I'll tell you something about my "problem" and then the question comes. I'm a very shy girl (actually I'm only shy about boys and it doesn't matter if I like the boy now or not) but me I've been playing fortnite with two guys lately. One is even my age and the other is 2 years older but I think that doesn't matter at first. In any case we also talk in Fortnite but I always hold back a lot because I just don't trust myself to say the one "annoys" me a little bit but I know that it is just fun. And sometimes I take it seriously and then talk even less. My question is now do you know what is wrong with me? Or how can I possibly talk better with the boys? I have no idea what boys care so much about what to ask, or shouldn't I do anything? I'm really desperate…
Just talk. How was the day?
So in between:
There's an opponent or something.
You have to dare to say anything else (or little)
Cars, money, rappers
You are apparently just a little shy about it, you don't have to change anything with the crowbar.
In addition, you shouldn't worry about what you can talk to the boy about so he feels good. Rather talk first about general, then you will quickly learn what interests you both, e.g. Fortnite.
Can say something like "hello leude" at the beginning or generally "normal" things - just like you are with your friends. Just stay relaxed (I know: easier said than done). What should bad happen? Nothing! Just talk normally, ask questions e.g. Teachers (favorite teachers, strange teachers, incidents…) or hobbies (besides gambling).
If you come up with sarcastic comments, just say them! 🙃
There are a few videos on YT that deal with different counter methods.
I do not know exactly how old you are (please never reveal that on the net) but you still seem to be relatively young - that will come with time. Otherwise, small talk or if they tease you just can't go into it if you have a hard time countering. Just pull them up for a change (you can refer to the game)! 🙂
Thank you!
No problem! Glad if I could help😄
Don't worry about it and just talk to them like you do to your friends. Guys are only human and don't want to bite you, they're also happy when you talk, the topic doesn't really matter.
