Which boy is more interesting?

Which boy would you girls find more interesting?

1. He's confident, athletic (but not muscular now), easily bragging and friendly. And he likes anime and manga. He is good at school and likes to read.

2. I'm a nerd who is friendly, self-confident, attentive, not athletic (but wants to change something. So I want to start at the end of this week.) And am good at school. I love sci fi stories and fantasy. And like to gamble a lot with my friends (no Fortnite). Go out with them every now and then. Also like to read.

I hope the question isn't strange. I'm very interested in that.

For that you would have to know the character. Not much can be said from that little bit.

But similarities are also important. I would have something in common with both of them, even purposely except for the boastful everything.

But there's more to it. Even if you don't have the same hobbies. It is important that both feel loved and respected enough and that one can also give this love. That's the most important.

I ask because I've been told I'm boring.

But that doesn't say much about you.

We don't know any humor or other traits, how are you privately you can't see that here.

There are always people with different opinions. Another will find you interesting

If I had to choose, it would be number 1 because we have similar interests. But of course the character also plays a role.

But if you had to choose who would you choose? It is purely a question of interest.

The first. Simply because anime is so much talked about and I love anime.

Nobody makes a decision based on such key data. Do you really believe that?
You come together because you have a crush on each other. Above all, the chemistry has to be right, the wavelength has to be right, you have to be able to talk to each other great, the charisma and smile have to please, you have to feel connected to views and values. You usually fall in love by experiencing something together, so you should just do something casually with many different candidates more often.
Nobody can decide who to fall in love with. The feeling comes or it doesn't. Nobody decides between two guys on the basis of such data, they just wait for feelings to come. So forget about such lists.
However, it is safe to say that plans do not mean as much as actions. What you want to start at the end of the week or what you plan to do says very little about yourself. Someone can be late for years and suddenly say, "I'll be on time from tomorrow". Life experience says that this has to mean zero and that he will usually return to the usual unpunctuality after a short time. People change surprisingly little, and certainly not consciously and deliberately.

That's a subjective opinion. What one finds boring, the other finds exciting.

Wow, that was really very educational. I really thought that such key data was important. Thank you very much for the answer. You get the star.

Thanks for your feedback. I'm happy that I could help.

That was just logical thinking and should be checked by anyone who is not mentally limited

You can't really say that, because statements like "friendly, sporty, nice self-confident and likes to gamble" could apply to very many people, no matter how different. But if I had to make a decision I would take the person above simply because I I'm so similar and have nothing in common with the second person.

I find that both are interesting, so I like to play video games but also like to read something, e.g. Stephan King Novels 😊I also like to do sport (I do an hour of sport every day and jogging 2 times a week) eherbut rather type 1 but that is more because reading manga is part of my everyday life and I watch anime at least 1-3 hours a day Day anime is my life and cosplay and going to convention is part of my life I'm a little otaku😅but actually, the information you have given is more of a side issue yes partners can have the same interests but they are not the most important (opposites attract ) The most important thing is the character and how the men / young deal with the women 😊 why do you ask is there an exact reason why you ask then I could also go into more detail on your question 😊

So, I like a girl in my class. We both get along very well and we laugh well too. We also had a meeting, which we both found nice and want to repeat it. Unfortunately, there's one problem. As you have already noticed, I'm person 2 and the 1 person is one of my friends. He's around her more often and sometimes teases her. I don't do that because I'm always misunderstood. He talks well to her and they both have almost the same interests. It just hurts. But her friends said to me that the boyfriend of mine would not suit her, but me much more. I'm always overwhelmed in situations like this and never know what I can do. I come home and unfortunately I think about how they talk to each other and yes. Maybe it's pure politeness (she is generally a very friendly and polite person), but maybe it's interest on her part. That's why I asked the question. I wanted to find out if I'm not interesting for girls.

So your interests are very interesting and as I can basically assess you are also sympathetic to me (as already mentioned, I'm an anime fan) so I can tell you from my side that it is often the case that I, as an anime fan, like to be with you I'm friends with everyone who has the same interests because that is a little rarer but my friend is not an anime fan so I can tell you that you have as many chances as your buddy when it comes to your interests, just score points with your character 😊❤

Yes, I'm personable and, in my opinion, I have a good character. I'm humorous, funny and am really friendly. Sure, you should meet the respective person in person, but I'm just overwhelmed because I'm afraid that he could win them over. It wouldn't destroy my life right now, but it would really make me sad. I was also told not to worry about it because the friends tell me something different from what I think. Still, I'm pretty overwhelmed.

But it is better to do more with her to show your character if you just sit around your chances will be reduced maybe she feels attracted to you only if you don't do anything she thinks maybe you have no feelings 🙁❤