Is that normal? - 1

Mo
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I met someone on the internet 7 months ago. We met in Fortnite and we've been writing to each other every day since then. She is 17 and at the gym, she says that she has to do a lot and therefore doesn't answer me quickly, has been like that since after the summer holidays. She also wrote to me often on her own initiative. But on Sunday she only read my message and didn't reply. That was the first day after almost 7 months that we didn't write. Somehow she doesn't write happily every day, I ask her if everything is okay, she answers yes. We talk about everything, we confide in everything. But that is now the second day where she only answers after 5-6 or 7 hours. Besides, she takes the pill and it has side effects. She also says that I'm important to her and that she loves me very much, just as I love her. Can someone help me there? I think it's because of me that she doesn't write, or is it because of the stress she has in the gym?

Me

Ask her! Say you have the feeling that it is something and that you want her to be fine and whether she no longer wants to write. Then you have clarity! ☺ good luck!

I can imagine that she has a lot to do for school etc.

me

I think you got into something there. You have now asked 10 questions about it, but you can't find friends on fortnite servers.

skyrim has to buy for that.

or you just go out and find some… That works too

ti

Honestly? How are we supposed to know?

You can only answer the speaker… So ask her directly about it and explain your thoughts to her.

Apart from that: the internet is patient and you can write all kinds of things and yet you don't know whether you mean it seriously… Just as food for thought.

Try to meet her. She doesn't just work for school, she also has a life outside of school.

Mo

She has almost no more free time. And it is clear that you or some of the people here write that one can't trust one another over the Internet. She lives 7 hours away.

ti

You also go to the gym, then you should know the workload…

Mo

I just don't go to the gym. That's why I ask.

ti

Your question that I posted says something else. Then why do you ask that when it's not true? Or is that an account for half the family again?

Mo

What's wrong with that?

ti

Then read your own question from 29 days ago… There's nothing more to say about it.