Overreaching parent speaker?

Hi, I'm 12 and I'm in a 6th grade of a high school in Baden-Württemberg.

We have had the same parent speaker since 5th grade. At the beginning I thought she was super nice and was also friends with her son.

A few months after the beginning of the 5th grade, however, she called my parents and told my mother that I had false friends who had a bad influence on me because they "beat up" their son. But actually they just slapped him after he sympathized and provoked them.

Well, then it went on, a classmate complained some time later that the parent spokeswoman had said to his parents that he shouldn't play Fortnite because it wasn't good for him.

I no longer got on well with her son. (He didn't want to talk to me anymore, for whatever reason)

Then a new situation came, during a theater rehearsal, the new friend of my son gave me no reason (his mother said: "he can't help it" because he has something similar to ADHD) from the stage (approx. 2m). I sprained my ankle and had to walk in crutches for 2 weeks.

The parent spokeswoman didn't do anything, even though my mother complained to her that the guy who swallowed me only had to write me a letter (which his mother wrote anyway)

I just wanted to know from you whether it acts as it should, or whether it is just overreaching.

Once a short version 😂 I do not understand now what your proplem is, ~~

She is definitely not competent for this position and must be replaced.

Then why don't your parents even talk to the class teacher or school management? Or go to the barricades together if she does this with several parents?

It is also not her job as the parent spokeswoman to talk to the parents in their upbringing and not to be there as a contact person in the event of disputes between the children. OK

If you are attacked at school, it is not the parents' representative but the teacher.

I'm also not sure whether she does these things rather as a mother and just happens to be a parent representative in. You don't have to deal with that either, but your parents.

Then there are always those helicopter parents in the way who tell the teacher that this is nonsense.

You could try it together, thank you

I believe you. With your spelling and quick writing, it's no wonder. Let it be better to answer the questions.

The question is whether it actually makes sense to cause an open conflict for the few days of attendance that Corona still has to be completed this school year!

In my opinion, the best thing would be to demonstratively ignore and ignore her for any inappropriate interference and to point out that she is exceeding her competence as a class parent!

If it were earlier in the school year, there would only be one thing:

The other parents in the class would have to coordinate and make an appointment with the class parent representative. If there's no insight from her at this meeting, you could still inform the class teacher.

If the class parent representative is still not ready to acknowledge her misconduct, a new class parent representative should be elected.

But, as I said: I no longer think that makes sense for the current school year!

Thanks for the star! ⭐️