I'm female (13) think my brothers gamble too much and with the wrong people…
They only gamble on the weekend but whenever the weekend is over they are nasty to me and yell at me (they don't play GTA Fortnite) and that's annoying!
I tried to talk to my parents but he said: just let them.
my dad is also very considerate of education, so they only play on weekends
and whenever they play they scream like crazy and that sucks too…
I just don't like arguing with my brothers anymore and it has already occurred to me to kidnap or destroy the thing, but I would get angry and the relationship with my dad and I is not exactly good after an argument yesterday…
so…
How can I get my brothers to stop gambling?
and when we're in the garden they watch YouTube on our mobile phones…
and even when I ask you if we want to go for a walk together you say: NO
HOW DO I GET THIS AGAIN?
Only on the weekend? Isn't that much…
Screaming during games is relatively normal.
What opportunities do your brothers have in the garden, if there was something interesting they wouldn't be on the phone.
That you don't want to go for a walk is just like that…
Yes, but afterwards they are cheeky to me and yell at me
and we have 6 dogs in the garden (because of Hubdezucht)
50 chickens and 2 rabbits… And bicycles…
WHAT IS NOT ENOUGH?
Well, that could be improved if they played Nintendo. GTA and other games are just shooting games and they make you aggressive. Nintendo has some games that have much better graphics, you sometimes get tired of them, the games are completely different and there are more games with peaceful actions.
Otherwise you can also look at other things:
Recommend, for example, the Anne series with an "E" - your family will generally like them!
I liked it very much.
The problem is my brothers don't want to play anything else
and thanks for the series recommendation
I'll take a look at them soon 🤗
Can be found on Netflix. Feel free to invite your brothers and your parents too. It's a family series
Ok thanks 🤗
It is more likely the people with whom you are playing, not the game itself.
Personally, I play very brutal "shooting games" (COD, Battlefield, Borderlands, etc.) and am gentle as a lamb.
Friends of mine also play with such people and they are "spasms" it takes a while for my friends to notice that they are playing with me and not with them and then they calm down.
Gentle as a lamb can also be a misjudgment. Your choice of words also belongs to the area of aggressiveness. You can check for yourself whether you use a lot of hard phrases and words. I can't assess that; but you can check it out. The cross of Jesus cleanses everything.
I use hard terms in "quotes" to clarify the term, but I don't have to justify myself.
You don't have to. It was just a suggestion and I wasn't interested in the comment, but in your everyday language. "Non-aggressive" means a lot. Perhaps some understand this: I don't fight myself = "Not -Aggressive". You can also verbally hurt people and how do you react to arguments etc.
