Net community,
I'm 16 years old and have a 4 year younger brother. He is partly aggressive and always disrespectful. If I was away for a long time and wanted to sleep in the next day, then he does not care, which is why he likes to run down the stairs and Youtube is running loud. Aside from that, he has a problem with the game because he's only focused on making money with fortnite. If he has PC ban and both parents are working, he turns off the power over and over again to keep me from playing / watching Netflix until I tell him where his pc was put down.
What can I do against it? If possible without physically injuring him.
The boy has too many things that are allowed him. Which 4 year old turns off the power and does not listen to the older ones? I think you were not like that yourself. He has to be limited. Talk about it with your parents, because I think he'll hear that most. He must be shown clear prohibitions and rules of conduct. Otherwise it will be very exhausting when he sees his freewheel on everything.
Do not talk to him for a day! Whenever he behaves this way, there's no talk 😜
He is 4 years younger -> 12
Your parents have to tell him that he will get a ban on Forrnite, Youtube etc. For ALWAYS unless he changes his behavior towards you and others. Instead, let him play with toys.
Many thanks. How can I show limits to him as an older brother? I do not really have the opportunity to draw any conclusions.
Achso I'm sorry to say something wrong but the principle is the same
Not 4 years old, 4 years younger than the questioner!
Thank you very much. That could work really well
Definition - Respect:
-on recognition, admiration-based respect
- Shyness felt by someone because of his higher, superior position, which manifests itself in an effort not to arouse displeasure
How do you expect that your brother should / should have "respect" before you?
Otherwise, your brother is most ruthless - and that is due to age rather perfect 2normal ".
Always tell him that in the house has the say that has the biggest tail. If your dad is not home, hopefully you are.
By staying consistent too. He does not get his PC! Finished. We're not at Wish-you-what 😜
First, set it to a "light" whiteness. Tell him if he crosses his limits then he can't do this and that and that mom or dad will not allow him to do that either. It is important that your parents are behind you, I think they just want the best for you. He probably will not take it seriously, but when all the bans come on him, he sees it.
Yes, I have now noticed synonymous xD Any principle is actually the same
Yes, I would do so too. And if then Netflix einach on the phone look until battery is empty then he has no desire of sekbst more
Thank you. You're actually hating right. Only the second bullet point:
- Shyness felt by someone because of his higher, superior position, which manifests itself in an effort not to arouse displeasure
Does not apply. He does not show any shyness and does not consider me superior, but rather someone who is always there for him, even though he does not really deserve it.
Especially your parents have to speak a word of power!
Sit down together u. Talk seriously to the "puberty".
Guess already. Only, I overestimate my position also, kings never had to really make a Schwamzvergleich, but always had the undisputed power. I would like to achieve that too
I would continue to do that. He has to earn his computer by doing something for the family. For example, clear out the dishwasher, mow the lawn, bring the dog out,.
PC is not everything and if he ruthlessly deals with his family, out of his own selfishness, that is not clear at all!
From me he is allowed to cook! 😃
Turn off the power? He probably has a bird. Then a lock comes to the fuse box.
Then do not be there for him if he does not deserve it. Then he just uses you. Ignorance with help is actually a bad "punishment"
Mostly my brother's argument that it's unfair, and I always do it that way. Admittedly, I can, yes, self-stink, quite cleverly change opinions and blame others if I so choose. My brother usually cites this as a counter-argument
Thank you very much. That will certainly change him. I will try it 👍
Kings were also overthrown…
You have to choose the right level of suppression. So that he realizes who has to say that without destroying him, so steal salami from the pizza, yes, throw his laptop out the window no.
That's actually the definition in Wikipedia.
I actually use the word "respect" quite differently in common usage, and I think many others do that too.
In fact, I tend to respect and connect with "respect" synonymous no Höqual, but a natural, mutual recognition, respect appreciation of the people among themselves.
Thank you. I will try. Even though I already steal a lot from the pizza, it does the opposite, and I'm the bad guy who always eats away the food. Maybe I have a wrong view of things
Well, if you blame others, you do not have to be surprised.
