The following problem: My little brother (13) has been playing a lot of Fortnite for some time now (stupid boxing game!) And always takes a break at the opportunity. He screams at the screen and his weird Internet friends and gets aggressive when told to go. Normally, he is actually a totally nice and decent boy, a bit silly, but at that age they are all like that. The big problem is that it completely kills my whole family. My mother is stressed every day and complains about every little thing and my father is always only angry. Earlier I said to my mother and brother what bothers me, and my mother said that she feels like a total failure and feels that she did everything wrong with my brother. He heard all this. I'm terribly worried that my mother will sink into depression, and my brother is also totally done with the world. Does anyone have any idea what to do? I'm completely overwhelmed with the situation…
I think the best thing would be if Fortnite is first uninstalled and her something nice / fun as a family company and he then over time with a set time limit may play.
The problem is that my dad does not do much else than hanging from his tablet or PC…
Then I would also say that he should spend less time please because this is also a reason for your brother's addictive behavior
To make that clear to me, I would now synonymous once the Wi-Fi plug pull
Has already happened. Unfortunately, my dad is of the opinion that he is always right in everything, so he does not let himself be talked into. I've been trying to play dispute mediators all the time, but they all stubbornly insist that it's virtually impossible to reach an agreement. Sometimes I feel that everybody hates themselves here.
Then I'm the one who gets Anschiss… Guess, at 16 you do not have so much to say
Boar, there's just so much wrong. I also read that your dad is not better, so I would rather see this as a source of problems. Make it clear what he is doing there and what it could have consequences. I have a family member with depression. And once they are there you have lost. Show your father what he has to lose and make sure your mother does more in that direction.
Why did man lose when depression is suddenly there?
Is the same with my brother and his friends. This is currently going on like an illness. XD you have to set limits to him, even before he gets older. Personally, I personally used to play all day long, about the age of 10. I'm addicted to today (19) but not "more", because that has settled itself with me. But getting angry in computer games is normal, it just should not end in conflict with the family!
When it's serious depression and not this recklessness depression, it usually lasts for life. Unfortunately, there are many psychiatrists who quickly resort to brain-altering drugs. These are usually just bad and the brain is further damaged.
