So the question is almost in the title,
I'm 13 and will be 14 soon too. My Ibf and I have known each other for over 2 years and facetimes almost every day since these 2 years. Now the fact: my parents don't know about it. Why? The reason is simply that I noticed from my godmother that her daughter (my age) spoke to Snapchat about a 17 year old who only wanted one thing and simply told him her address etc. For this, of course, she had to break contact with him and was additionally banned from cell phones for 3 months. So: I would say I'm a different child from her. I'm going to do more thinking. When I met her in a round of playing fields in Fortnite 29 months ago, I didn't even want to tell her my real name (first name) after weeks, because I know how dangerous this can end. Little by little, I dared step by step, and after 4 months, I faced the first time with her. I fell in love with her and she also fell in love with me. We gradually released more and more personal information because I knew I could trust her. Alone the fact that she said she doesn't care whether in 1 or 20 years, she wants to meet me one time, does not suggest that she is one of the grandpas who want to abuse children. I have also built up a second circle of friends with her and know and get on very well with many of her friends. I also have her sister's number and have helped her at all times. I'm 100% aware that she can't be fake, since she really shows me FaceTimed, a real family, I see her events by name and all her friends' Instagram profiles on Insta. Falsifying a full level of a school would not be so easy. Now the real problem: We love each other really well and definitely want to meet soon. Every day only motivates me to get through it, on the grounds that one day less until I see it. I'm totally afraid to ask my parents if I can meet with her because I have to drive 450 km to her because of the second circle of friends, and I think my mother will forbid me because of the story of my godmother. I'm too afraid to have to break off the contact completely. I just want to have her in my arms once and let the impossible moment of my life come true.
Real love story…
Why story?
Very easily:
you 13, sry almost 14, love a girl (very strong) who lives 450km away and you have never seen her (which is not to say that she is not real).
What if it smells exaggerated?
Do not commit yourself too much to a person you can only see in 3-4 years, if everything goes well.
So far as travel under 17 I think it will be difficult.
So I can really speak against the stink completely because it has a shelf full of perfumes xD
But how can I best convey the wish to my parents with positive success?
Becomes difficult.
Your parents will label it a crush, which it is even if you don't understand it at this point.
what you can try:
tell your parents about it, say your name a little bit every day etc.
and then when the opportunity arises and you have a vacation you can try it and ask if it is ok to go to her, you can save money for it achonmally, that will make the negotiation easier later.
