So I'm 14 years old and can't take it at home anymore, Corona has made it even worse because everyone is at home. First of all, I want to make it clear that my parents hit me 2-3 times back then, why I don't want to tell so much but it wasn't that bad (cell phone topic and so on). Anyway, I still have a big sister (19 years old). My room and that of my sister are not looking really tidy at the moment because we have become a little lazy due to Corona. That's why I'm no longer allowed to meet or buy anything. I have a limited time (2h 45min) on my mobile phone for most apps except for phone and WhatsApp, this age restriction is activated on my switch, which forbids me to talk or write to others in Fortnite and Co. And I have to do both every day Hand in 20h. Every time I want something my parents say "only after you've tidied your room" but my sister can buy anything she wants (for example her new iPad arrived today and her Apple Pen) and she can go out and talk to her Meeting friends and co. Sure, she's older than me, but it's still unfair. I've tried so often to talk to my parents about things, but my sister always interferes and comes up with her counter-arguments, which really upsets me because of her, I also owe that with the cell phone and the switch. I also tried to talk to my parents about the fact that I no longer feel comfortable here, but they didn't listen to me, misunderstood me and said that I could be happy to have such a life at all…
I would go to the youth welfare office, but I'm too shy for that so I'll try it here, thank you in advance.
So you don't have to put up with physical violence for whatever reason.
However, the rest sounds pretty reasonable. The difference between you and your sister is simply she grew up at 19 and your parents can't tell her anything more. On the other hand, you are 14 and your parents have a duty to raise you and that includes dealing with the media and computer games or keeping your room tidy
Since you are still a minor and live at home, strangers can't help you because your parents are responsible for you and your upbringing.
If you can't take it anymore, because of Corona, then you could look for a hobby that you can do at home.
You have no idea how many children there are who don't even have anything close to what you have and you complain because your parents allow you less hours on the phone?
Certainly not in vain, otherwise you might just hang on to your cell phone.
Your big sister has grown up and in every family it is so that older siblings can allow themselves more or their parents allow more than with you.
Why do you start arguing with your parents? What are you aiming for, you are only achieving the opposite. I'm sorry for you, your parents are still hanging on to the longer lever.
If your parents would trust you, then they would certainly leave your leash longer.
Then approach your parents and keep your room a little clean, where is your problem.
As a 14 year old you don't only have rights. But also duties.
But you can go to the youth welfare office, but they will first turn up at your home and then listen to your parents' opinion. Just because you don't like a lot at the age of 14, the youth welfare office doesn't do anything.
Such a question has already been asked that parents forbid everything, take everything away and that you no longer want to live at home.
Coincidence or another account?
Talk to your parents sensibly, maybe you can do something together at home, play old board games or other things together that you otherwise have little time for (without Corona). Then you have less time for the cell phone and it helps keep the family together.
Make it clear to yourself that life can't and will not only go according to your wishes. Also and certainly not as an adult. Almost every child has your problems and parents try to raise their child correctly. If you behave sensibly and understand that you can't get everything in life that you want, your parents will treat you differently. The youth welfare office is not responsible for such problems. But they could make it clear to you how good you are actually. Believe me, everyone was against their parents as a child. Today I'm more than grateful that my parents grappled with me and explained to me why something wasn't working.
Forget your defiance and consider what YOU can do to fulfill your wishes. And. What others have and are allowed to have is not a standard for you.
Apparently coincidence as it is my first account
