Lskschule here was a "relationship" with Jessica (irrelevant, grammar school), then I'm in high school, jessica too. I found it difficult to talk to girls, but was neither geek nor mobbing victims.
Well, I got Snapchat and Insta relatively late (Whatsap only at 14), I'm not so in the gym guys, they're still in touch with each other, I'm not so much. Recently, Max has found his girlfriend, a girl from his 1st class (out of 2). Jessica has stayed in the gym, has a friend there with whom she is happy. Well, I'm still good at school now without really Having a female friend, which is why I compare myself with max and ask myself what I'm doing wrong. I feel like I'm the only one around me who is not happy.
I'm not sure if I want to go partying or if I can tell myself. I have a hard time getting involved as I'm a single child, living in a small village and myself Well, I do not have many friends asking me if we want to do something. When I ask, my friends clearly agree when they have time, but I seldom receive requests.
Mitlerweile I also have the feeling that max me is always leveler, he has only more of his girlfriend in mind and it made me crazy, when I did not even know who it was, because he has made so secretive. To celebrate: people from the class always say: today I go drinking or drinking something, which is not bad, but it always feels better for me if they do not, because I always compare myself with other people, and then always think I do not belong to it.
My self-esteem goes down and I want to talk about it with my parents as well. I also play Fortnite and I think I play it too often, but most of the time I have nothing better to do because I do not have to invest much in school and I do not many inquiries get (certainly not from girls), I'm not even sure if I'm addicted. I do not get fat, I do sport, but I'm relatively small and talking to foreign people would not help. I'm just not "mature" like the others, I think.
My thoughts: Why does max have a friend, do not I? What do I have to do to become more popular? What do I do differently than the others? What am I doing wrong?
And I know that it says: The first kiss can wait and as long as you're happy everything fits and blah blah blah and I know that too but my thoughts just make me ready.
Sometimes I wonder why I'm not a girl, as if you can tell a friend his feelings openly and tell her a lot, I do not have a "best" friend, and other friends would think me strange, especially max me no help.
The situation just makes me ready. What should I do?
Can you formulate in one or two sentences what you want?
It is very difficult, you have to read the text, I can't put my problem in 2 sentences, because it is a social, mental problem
I'm a girl and I have no girlfriend that I can tell everything.
You're really desperate… Why Max has a girlfriend, I can't really tell you, I do not know him. Why you do not have, I do not know, probably. Because you are invisible to many, and how you want to become more popular is already understandable in your situation. I was also leader 5.-8. Class more the inconspicuous type. Then I changed schools and now everyone knows me. I can hardly say how I became more sedentary. I think a good self-confidence helps a lot. Humor or self-irony. Or draw attention to yourself. Well, I do not like being the center of attention, but now and then it's ok.
Being popular with girls is definitely good. Girls are mostly (for me) more sociable than boys. How those can become more popular with those I already told you (rather written). Do not rush the whole thing after the weekend, do it a bit slower.
If you really want to party, just ask your classmates if they think they'll drink today, if you can join us. I'm not the one who goes to celebrate for no reason. Only on birthdays or something. My parents or my mother does not like it that way.
Good luck next week in school to become more popular. I would be glad, if you write times how it works.
In general, the girl but more often than boys.
Thanks for the help, I will try.
