I need friends with my interests because if people don't have my interests then friendship usually doesn't work. Now please don't come along, it's not always about interests. I tried friendships without my interests and they're all totally boring and I'm totally bored with them too. I really need friends who like what I like… Unfortunately I'm a fan of a game that has a very small fan base. I love Outlast But when I really talk to people about it they like it but are not a big fan of it or they hate it. You are also annoyed because I'm only talking about it. I want to find friends (not online but really who like the game) because none of my friends like the game… I'm looking for people everywhere who like it but it is very difficult. Where I live, things like Spiderman, one piece and fortnite are popular. Isn't everything mine… Should I have any hope that I will find Outlast fans here? Because I'm giving up and I'm just sitting at home. As I said normal friends bring me nothing and boring me because I'm an extremely fan. A relationship with a guy who likes the game as much as I can do my make-up.
Sorry if I'm annoying with it but it just annoys me a lot because my interests are very important to me… Normal people are boring sorry… Doesn't want to come across as unappealing but nobody is perfect
Denouncing a friendship just because of a game like that is stupid. Just accept that the game is so small and people may not like it. You don't like surgery, Fortnite etc.
And what is great to talk about Outlast? ^^ It is not that big and mysterious… You get yourself into something.
I think you've been told it enough times. Friendships and relationships consist of compromises.
And it is precisely these selfish features that are the reason why you can bury yourself in your Outlast doctor pillow.
You manipulate every bond with other people almost compulsively because they somehow don't suit you and you justify yourself. Hey nobody is perfect. Yes, that's right. Neither YOU nor your potential friends.
You choose your loneliness, so to speak, and unjustifiably place yourself in the victim role. Face reality and grow up
It's actually normal for you to share your interests with friends. It is only an exaggeration if the scope is so narrow that there's just interest and a little more widespread on offer.
It is normal that there are tons of people who are out of the question for a lack of suitable interests.
You should be a bit flexible and be able to offer more yourself.
You can't have just one game as a hobby on which you want to build your friendships… O.o.
Imagine that in my circle of friends no one gambles DarkSouls… Many don't even gamble… Should I now bury my head in the sand and mourn because nobody wants to be my "friend" with whom I can chat non-stop about DarkSouls or other cool games?
I can understand you very well how "annoying" it is not to be able to find and get to know like-minded people "offline". Because I would also appreciate more than just being able to chat with someone about a great game.
I also find "friendships" difficult to maintain or maintain when you have absolutely no common preferences. - And that's why it's important that you expand your interests a little yourself… And not just stick to a single game.
You hit the point.
It is exactly like that. 👍
