Undzwar: My name is Tobias am 14 years old and go to a high school.
At school I have almost everyone as a friend. I'm very popular in the class.
The best friends are Fabian and Kerem. They are just funny you always laugh but they are quiet because their parents are very strict. We always have such mediocre grades. In any case, I always come home after school to make a break so 15-30min and then do my homework. At about 16 o'clock I'm finished and sit down at the computer. Most of the time I play from 4pm to 6:45 pm and then learn a few subjects until around 7pm and play again until around 9:30 pm. I honestly do not mind it myself. My mother wants to sign me up at some sports club because I never go out. That is true but 1. I train every day and have really trained (s) legs, upper body and arms and eat 0 sweet so nothing at all. My brother often jokes that I have no friends because my mother always asks me why I never go out. I have explained it to her twice now. : I ask my best friends always jo, have today time lass ma go swimming or something? But always the same answer: ne diggah let ma have to do a lot of homework and I'm net home today maybe next time! And that every day. Now I've started to watch the Snapchat card at every "I'm home" and as I thought, of course, they were at home, often sending snaps like they just got a Fortnite win.
1. I think now that I'm not a friend 2.nerven my parents at home and 3. I never come out and that is boring and corrosive my parents think I'm a nerd I try so all the time. I do not check it.
Are not they real friends? Or just nerds who play all day?
I would call them good schoolmates. You get along well and understand each other well, but only meet at school.
Had always only such "friends". But they are not "real friends" with whom you constantly do something.
Everything good for your birthday!
At school I have almost everyone as a friend
Maybe you should look for real friends who want to do something with you. Even if they just want to play with you.
Thank you first for your comment but I have only a "real friend" with whom I've done a lot football, trampoline, etc. However, he is now a completely different person he flies from school and yes I do not want to net more.
PS: would advise you to respect the wish of your mother and join a sports club. Is a great way to make new friends. The best team sports, so you talk a lot with others.
Gibts net, I ask everywhere in my club. At school. Class. From visiting their children ne all say ne would rather play fortnite diggah
Tobias, no, these are not friends. They talk to you at school the way they talk to everyone else.
I'm really telling your mother. Go to a club (football, swimming, sports, cycling, scouting, carnival, music, firefighters, archery, shooting club). There you get to know people. It is simply about social contacts and not just about muscles.
Maybe you have a hobby that you can expand and get together with people. Here maybe you can help a course at the community college o.ä. Further.
Go breakdance and no, there are only so people with fortnite. Nerds.
Thank you too for the first time.
Go cycling, hiking, etc. And weekend breakdancing.
So cycling and hiking often with family or alone and in the "club" are as people as in the school. "Jo can Fortnite today?" "Ne sorry but let ma swim something else or something?" "Yes kp never have time"…
My mother wants to sign me up at some sports club because I never go out
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I ask everywhere in my club
Football, trampoline etc.
They are not friends. I know that very well, but I live that way for a long time and can tell you that you should look for other people.
Yes my mother signed me up and yes I like it too but I do not want to go club for doing something with friends every day, the "friend" with whom I played football and was at the trampoline for hours, that's almost flown from school and so she has to go to a drug school so I do not think I should do anything with that.
It's dirty. I can't prove it to my parents and they think I have no friends
And in the football club are none with whom you can meet. You can't tell me that none of the people you know meets privately with others.
If they had time for fortnite, I would catch up with your ma when you're in a round
Then go to another club and meet new people there. So fast you do not throw the shotgun into the grain. You have to really want to and not only feel sorry for yourself.
The football was a real boyfriend at that time but now he has slipped and has to change school he has 12 wtf
I have been in many different only breakdance I have been going for a year and I like it and I can't join a 2nd club because I absolutely have school stress otherwise.
And there are no people who would do anything with you from time to time?
Ne the same as in the school with those full well so entertain us forever write constantly, etc. But nothing happens except Fortnite
