I have already asked a question about this topic but first a couple of information about me and then it goes to the point ok info age: 13 height ca 160 weight 80kg (white that is overweight) I told my parents but my mom thinks so if only it were a silly joke it all turned out to be too bad we were eating tonight i really did not say a single word because those thoughts were in my head all the time i was so glad i was a daddy i wanted to laugh too I just sat listless and looked in the air and thought it did not work I've already tried distracting me with Fortnite it did not work all at once it clicked I thought so again that I want to be a girl Fortnite closed and have on C & A Or on H & M After girls clothes did not know how to continue like that said my mother said I'm sick
Do not you have relatives to whom you have a good connection and whom you can confide in? They should then talk to your parents.
Ok, theoretically it can be a phase, but through discussions with professionals who are familiar with the topic you will find out / recognize what is going on.
Then one should help you accordingly and not think that this is just a joke.
So first: you are by no means ill. There are many people who are like you, maybe try to meet some, that often helps if someone is in the same situation as you.
Secondly:
It is your life. If you feel like a girl, try to do everything you can to live that way. You are still quite young but it is the worst not to be able to be as you feel. So talk to your parents, make them realize that you are not feeling well at the moment. Maybe you just write down your thoughts so what bothers you in your current life or not to be a girl. I'm sure that you can manage to solve the problem if you stand by yourself and show that to the outside world. Remember, you only live once, so make something out of your life and forgive yourself for doing right and not for other people.
Dressing up in a different way is something. You may want to let your hair grow, just try to look more feminine (short hair is female, too, but think to put a sign first)
Get involved with things from the "girls' world"
We live in the year 2019, clearly there's far too much discrimination but we should hold together and fight against, make a mark and stand with us so do what you feel comfortable with ❤️ I wish you all the best
Yes, but my relatives are not interested in the topic, that's what I told them
It is (unfortunately) quite normal that parents do not react so well on the first try. A bit you have to put in their situation. They raised you 13 years and thought that they have a son. That they have recently known that you perceive you as a girl, they will certainly have thrown something off the track.
One of the main problems is that many parents are not familiar with it (as well as?). They do not really know what that means, they can't understand how you feel and are often afraid of what the future will look like. So before you throw everything overboard because your parents did not react positively, I would recommend that you talk to them in peace (you probably have to do that several more times). You have to speak openly about how you feel and what you want for the future. Maybe you can help them a bit and, for example, find a documentary on the subject (there are many on YouTube) so they can understand the subject a bit.
It would be useful if you also talk about visiting a psychotherapist.
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It is imperative for you to determine if you really have a trans-identity and you can handle it later
A good idea for your parents, so that they have (if it is confirmed) the word and the support of the expert, what is currently going on with you and to understand it
Maybe you can also check if there are LGBT youth clubs, Trans * support groups or counseling centers in your area. If not, it is always a good idea to get in touch with other people in forums. That will do you good on your way.
Do not hang your head, such things take time.
OK, but how am I supposed to feel like this? Where should I get clothes or hair that long? My parents drag me to the barber
Are you going to buy your clothes with your parents or alone? Next time just say that you girls want to have stuff and no others and your parents can't force you to cut your hair
I live in a small village because there's not something like that
With my parents for me, it's embarrassing to select or try something like other people as much as I would like to and with 25kg over weight that makes it even harder and my mom said I can do it if I do not want to have friends and she has not talked to me all day today
