I'm totally desperate and also totally angry. My mother tries to tell me what to do all the time. It's not about housework because today I did 5 of! It's about the fact that my mother is simply very stuffy, no matter what!
I'm 16 years old and desperate because my mother wants to dictate everything to me. It's about video games, television and food. (I still have one question at the end and although someone knows the feeling that the sister is preferred?)
My mother never allows a starter if she needs 3 hours for the meal again, she forbids me to eat a few slices of bread beforehand! I find it kind of annoying, I'm totally hungry, my mom's food takes 3 hours every day! In other words: Mama started making food 1 hour ago, since then she has forbidden me to eat any bread. I will be really pissed off at some point because I will not take it anymore! I turned 16 in November last year and I'm not allowed to play games from 16 when I started playing Fortnite, I wasn't even allowed to play Fortnite. I really don't gamble that much and I'm not aggressive about the game. It's just about me that I don't suffer. Can my 18 year old sister have changed the Leptop password, has hidden the Nutella glass and only she can use it from my mother!
My mother and my sister think that we should also ban football. I'm always disturbed when I watch football, it just annoys me.
My mother watches really loudly every time, her Albanian videos also while I'm eating and while I'm playing.
Do you think my sister is preferred, I mean it is clearly unfair that my sister can take everything away from me, can block my programs that are for my age, other programs are simply deleted!
PS: I notice my mother is not going to see her boyfriend once on the weekend and I'm already desperate. Nothing against my mother but I think my sister is preferred
I have to shop for 3 people all the time and never my sister. When it comes to obligations I'm treated like 16 but when it comes to rights like in my games I'm treated like 10. By that I mean, games from the age of 16 that I'm officially allowed to play are not allowed to me, just like age-appropriate series are not allowed to me. Can someone give me some advice?
I'm good at school, otherwise I also have good grades.
It cracks and rattles in many households. I actually only know 3 possibilities:
Endure and endure
Get aggressive and fight back
Sit down and agree the rules.
Of course, I'm for the third party (even if that wasn't possible with us!). You can also get help from outside so that the 3 involved do not get upset.
