Hi
So I'm in love for some time with a young boy in my class and 1 year younger.
We're really good friends you can laugh with him great and he is not one of those always talking about fortnite but about topics that interest us both
When I see him, I have butterflies in my stomach
I'm afraid he does not like me anymore when I tell him…
Should I tell him or not…
And if so, how?
How old are you?
if he does not get out of the joke, do not ask, but otherwise you can "test" it by asking him if he had a relationship or if he even has one. If you ask him very directly, eg. "Do you have a girlfriend?" He will suspect, and there's little danger that he will have nothing more to do with you, but he will probably come to you if he feels the same.
You can also show it to him with gestures that you feel more for him. For example, if you sit next to each other and talk to each other, look him longer than usual in the eye, drive through your hair more often and look how he reacts vllt brings it out of the reserve and you realize that he expects you more than just friendship. Maybe you even dare to take his hand when you're walking next to each other.
If he likes you now, he'll do it after your confession even if he does not feel the same. It is probably then bumpy first because you do not know exactly how to deal with the person now but that settles again and then everything is as before so you have basically nothing to lose. Take all your courage together! Boys are often a lot shyer than we girls. LG
You do not have to tell him right away that you love him, but you can talk to him when the opportunity arises, let's ask him if he already had or has a girlfriend.
Then you know at least a little more and often then ask guys back, as it is with you with a friend…
So if you are in the "topic" and if he is also interested in you, he will not let it drop that fast and you can continue to signal to him that you want to get to know him (or "get closer") and from his reactions and Actions you will notice, if the friendship can become more.
Only courage!
