I urgently need help I do not know how to deal with this situation. My friend and I have been together for a long time and he really does everything for me and shows me his love every day. As we got to know him he did not have his Ps4 more touched he said he would rather spend time with me and that he is no longer interested in the console. But since he made all the updates last week, everything is different. He ignores my calls and answers after about 2 hours that he is still playing Fortnite with friends. I can understand that and also told him that I did not want to intervene in his life, at least it is I think like a hobby, but he rarely writes to me and even when I'm with him he plays. I want to spend more time with him and get that feeling that he loves me again. At the moment I'm not feeling well and I'm worried because we had a "sex accident" so I say. I don't know if I'm pregnant but if I want to talk to him about it he shouldn't say or think something like that, he doesn't listen to me on such an important topic and I'm really desperate.
Then make it clear to the boy that it is important to you!
When you're with him, the thing comes out or you go. Very easily. And if he doesn't get it, go forever. Tell him personally in a quiet minute when the console isn't on.
I can understand you very well. Have you ever tried letting him gamble and doing something yourself? Haven't you written to him in a while? Not for a few days. Maybe he then asks if you want to do something with him. And then you can tell him that he can only do something with you if he plays less Fortnite. Maybe it will only take a few months before this game gets too boring for him. If he still doesn't ask after a week without contact with you, I would tell him either he'll do something with you again or you go. If that doesn't help, I would go. But even if he'll play less Fortnite, you still have to allow him to do it from time to time. You can't stop him entirely.
