PS: What do you think of a long distance relationship? Most of the girls come from NRW and I from Bavaria!
Clear answer no
If you are not a jealous person and are okay with the fact that they write and play with lots of other guys, you are welcome to try that. At the time, however, that only gave me moderate depression.
Ok, and is it generally worthwhile to have a long-distance relationship or not?
Had a long distance relationship and am in a real relationship right now. My current relationship is 1000x better. Sure, it's nice to have someone at all, but I find long-distance relationships cause more heartache than joy. Better leave it and play with those on a friendly level, if you can't move in in the next year, it will mean that one of you will get to know someone else in the area anyway
OK.
I'm rather shy when it comes to addressing girls on the street. How do I find one more easily besides apps etc?!
Nobody just gets to know women on the street, or really only a few. Do you have any hobbies or pretty girls in your class? You can always get closer to each other and it doesn't feel so forced
Well, I'm already working…
You can really find women everywhere, you just can't look for them specifically. Go out, be open, then it'll come by itself at some point, if you don't expect it at all
Ok, I'm also one of those people who like to go to disco etc., even then I find it difficult to speak to. How can I practice this well? So just don't look for it specifically, then it will come by itself?!
At the moment it's a little more difficult because of Corona, but just be open and keep your eyes open. In the disco maybe take a look around to see if any woman is looking at you and smiling at her. It was also very difficult for me to do it, but sport became more self-confident and at some point it came by itself
Ok what sport do you do And how can I smile in general? I have trouble with that too. A buddy said I should smile more. That goes down well with women.
BTW: I'm 22 years old
Do weight training in the gym and have lost 20 pounds and built on muscles. That increased my self-confidence enormously because you just feel more comfortable. And just practice smiling in the mirror, even if that sounds stupid. The main thing, however, is that you have a positive, open charisma, that is what women like.
OK. Unfortunately, I'm thin, I can eat a lot and I don't gain weight. I'm sporty, I played soccer once. Fitness studio unfortunately nothing built up muscles etc. What can I do about it? Although I eat a lot. How old are you actually?
So I would say yes.
I also met my girlfriend through Warzone.
I'm 23, I live in BW, they are 20 from Bavaria
So in itself it is not a problem, it would be interesting how old you are and what resources are available to you. (Car, train, leisure)
Of course, that makes it a bit more difficult, but not impossible. You just have to exercise a little more than others and should try to eat around 500 more calories than you consume. And try to consume a lot of protein, because that's the building material for muscles. I'm 23 years old
Ok, I stopped then. Because the gym was a bit expensive in the long run. I don't think I'll start anymore either, it's just boring on my own. What is actually important for women. Except muscles?
OK. Did you exchange numbers or via Facebook or something?
Confidence is the most important thing, the muscles only help you become more confident. No matter how good you look, if you just stand there and say nothing, you'll never get to know one. Just seem open and interested and look for something in life that inspires you and that you can talk about a lot. Women like that too, of course not all of them, I only talk in general
OK. How do I know that someone is interested in talking in real life and writing Whatsapp or something?
You just notice that, women often ask a lot of questions and give long and detailed answers
Ok, right now I think I'll die from being single. There was also a time when I wanted to kill myself because of a friend. How can I address girls when they are in a group? I really miss it…
I thought exactly the same thing until I finally found what I was looking for. Don't worry so much about it, live your life and try to be happy on your own. Then the women come by themselves
Ok, well a buddy is 32 years old. I got to know him through training. He is not looking for a girlfriend and is already a virgin. This is also not bad at 32 is it?
No not bad at all, but maybe he doesn't socialize either. You just have to leave the house, otherwise it will be difficult
Are you completely lost? Just because you're playing fortnite with some girls doesn't mean they want to date you right away. They probably don't even know what you look like. So the answer is clearly no.
Yes, first through Discord.
Then insta.
Then the cell phone number
OK. A buddy has a new girlfriend since today. He said I have to be more confident, how do I do this exactly? And how do you get a new girlfriend so quickly?!
