I want to talk to you about a topic that has troubled me for years.
It started when I was in the 5th grade, I was a Schalu type, calm, intimate, got good grades, then I went in the 6th grade and I had completely changed but so mediocre grades, everything started. I then sat after school, always playing on the Playsi (Fortnite), as long as I stayed in the 8th grade. I had a few five in my certificate. But I was thinking about the future, what I would like to become, I looked more closely at my religion. I'm now in the 9th and feel strange, I think why I'm not as smart as in the 5th grade, I thought him so smartly as if I was a high school student. But I don't know what's wrong with me? I have such a bad feeling about the 2-3 years. Hamdulliah I have a good report right now, maybe this year will also be a 1.9 average. But I'm still somehow not at peace because I don't think so smarter and positive (as before) Could that be at puberty? Or to my friends with whom I hang out (I only have 3 friends in person).
What do you think? How can I get myself back (like before) so that I think positively and Schlauer now but not otherwise.
I hope you have understood the text as best as possible…
Times come and times go. Back then, it was definitely a better time, but the reason itself can't be easily assessed. I wouldn't say it's because you gambled so much. It was similar to me but there was never really a reason
Would say it is a little bit because of your friends that you have changed, there's also a very well-known hadith about good and bad friends.
Read a lot of books, that makes you wiser (depends on the type of books) and more conscious. Also improves your grades in school.
Maybe it helps if you first isolate yourself and concentrate only on yourself. Think about why you want to be like before and how you can achieve it… We can't tell you what to do, only you know yourself and only you can change yourself or return to your old self.
As a child, you are more carefree and it is normal for you to change. Just look positively into the future and forget the few years. It was a phase.
Could be as well.
You can't be the same as before, but you can definitely be better! Try to take a good look at your surroundings and think carefully which friends will take you further and which actually secretly wish you bad. If you want to be more successful, think successfully. Set yourself high goals (e.g. A higher degree or a good education). Nobody holds you, you can be who you want to be as long as you do something for it. You don't have to worry too much about the future either, as everything will turn out. Just do your best and achieve your goals.
Changes will accompany you throughout your life and, above all, at your age, it is completely normal for you to change and, as you mentioned, puberty is a possible cause.
The important thing is that you hold onto the things that mean something to you, no matter whether family, friends or your religion.
